5 Principles:

Define where you are in the stage of marrital destruction

1. Forgive & Forget – Seek to accept Complete Comittment, overcome rejection. Get Committed!
2. Levels of Consciousness. Dif Levels of emotion, Peace Joy Love is highest, Reason Acceptance Willingness Neutrality in second, Pride Anger Desire is third, and Fear Grief Apathy Guilt and Shame is Lowest. When you have trauma you fall into fear…therapy can help that. Fear leads to NEEDINESS. She hates this. Release resentment and go up towards love. Let go of fear and apathy and get to level of love and action.
3. Her Actions. Dwell with her in an understanding way. Learn female psychology…Ask when was the last time you were afraid for your life? She will say sometime within the last week! Women are VERY fearful. If you raise voice, disregard her boundaries, minimize her pain, or blame-shifted you caused her to fear you. When she pours out her heart to you she is looking for empathy and understanding not fixing and logic.
4. Apex Actions. High value man integrates provider and protector together that she will never leave. “Preselection” means another woman wants you means you are a high value man. A lack of neediness drives her attraction, you must NOT need her but to Want her. Unreactive, deep vocal tone, eye contact, be present in the moment.

Finally don’t try to fix it all alone, call Josh for a free evaluation call.

No More Playing Around! Are YOU Committed?